Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Blame it on the desk

 

It’s all my desk’s fault. Really it is. Honest. I wouldn’t lie to you.

Blame the desk for why I haven’t had time to blog or add more stenciling to the bathroom or re-paint the slant back cupboard that was supposed to be pumpkin when I painted it back in 2010 but it came out orange or any of the other things I wanted to get done in January. Here it is the last day of the month and very few things got checked off my to do list. And as I sat drinking my coffee today, I realized it was all my desk’s fault.

Normally when I show you pics of my desk, they look something like this.  I don’t think people really want to see other people’s messes so I usually grab all the crap stuff and throw it on the bed in our room and show you a cleaned up version of my humble desk. 020

But the truth is, it usually looks more like this….003

Here is a closer look….005

I know – some of you are saying “Hey that doesn’t look too bad!!” 028

But the truth is it is really worse than it looks. Those piles are layers deep.  On top of this pile is the packet from the wedding venue for our daughter’s October wedding. And under it are all kinds of paperwork and ideas that we need to sort out. We still need to decide on so many things like flowers, a photographer, and all the things that I will need to make ~ like the save the date cards, the invitations, place cards, programs, favors, centerpieces and so much more. 015

But one thing that is all set is THE DRESS!!! Last week Jen and I spent the afternoon at a local bridal shop and she found THE DRESS! This was the third time she had tried on dresses but it was a much difference experience and it was a magical special time for her and me. We had the shop almost to ourselves, got lots of attention and so many other pieces fell into place. She found THE DRESS and the the veil. And sitting in that little zebra bag on my desk are the earrings and bracelet we found too! She felt beautiful and looked beautiful. I am so happy for her!!

I know you all want to see THE DRESS, but that will have to wait until after the wedding. This is all I will share…train

And this little sweeties continues to keep me busy 3 days a week. She is so darn smart and her imagination is simply amazing! Most of you know I taught preschool for 20 years and was the Director for several years before leaving that job in 2005 so I have a pretty good working knowledge of what makes a good school. So Lili’s mom and dad have asked me to help scope out preschools for September. In those piles are the names and numbers of some schools Lili and I will visit and then her mommy and daddy will visit the ones I think are good quality programs. 019By the way her daddy turned 33 on Sunday and having the whole family for a roast beef dinner was a welcome distraction from all the projects waiting for me. Mother Nature has been extremely kind to us this winter and the roads and walkways and driveways have remained clear and dry that helped enough that we could get my folks here even. My dad keeps saying “it’s the last time” it was an extra blessing.

Just since I took these pics a few days ago,  I have filled in several more dates on the calendar pages I print out myself with an old version of print shop. I keep them right there on my desk. Also in those piles are the names and numbers of some Home Health Care agencies. I am looking into getting some more in home help for my folks. Since my first career was a geriatric nurse, I guess that makes me pretty qualified to do that as well.  When I left my job in 2005, I said that I had ‘retired’ but it’s uncanny how both of my areas of expertise are being put to work once again.026

I just recently resigned my position as Home Features Manager for the magazine to have more time for all these family commitments so also in that pile are some homeowners contracts and questionnaires I need to scan and send to Kristine as she takes back the tasks I did in that position. I keep the printer hidden behind this piece of ticking fabric. 018

And right in front of the printer are two of the penny rug patterns I wanted to get to this month.029 I envisioned myself sitting in my wonderful new chair stitching away but that hasn’t happened often enough. By the time I sit here in the evening, my eyes don’t want to do that kind of work.018

Inside the wonderful feather basket I bought from my friend Pam over at the Primitive Basketcase blog is a needle punch pattern I wanted to get to as well. Maybe in February…010…of 2013??

I am not even going to tell you what is inside this cabinet. Let’s just say I am pretty sure it will be waiting for me after the wedding, fall photo shoots, fall vacations, Thanksgiving, Holiday photo shoots and Christmas as well!010

If those aren’t enough to fill my days,  in yesterday’s mail I got some more goodies to keep my busy. 003

My staff copy of the spring issue of A Primitive Place & Country Journal. SPRING 2012Even though I had to cut back the amount of time I work for the magazine, I will continue to work part time doing shoots as well as occasionally writing, and one of the perks is getting one of the first copies of the newly released issue. Kristine also sends the issue’s featured homeowners a copy right away too. I think it is soooo nice that they get to see it before the wholesale and subscriptions are mailed out. It’s not too late for you to subscribe and get your spring issue ~ you can do that by clicking ~HERE~. 

Did you notice those little awesomely wrapped bundles? 003Those are some of the soaps I ordered from Ellie’s Handmade Soap. (click on her name to get there) Ellie makes her own 100% natural olive oil soaps. I ordered the Orange & Spice and let me tell you, I could spend all day in the bathroom washing my hands with this. You know how sensitive to fragrances I am and this is a keeper for sure. And Ellie included a sample of her Gardener’s scrub which I am saving for gardening season. She has several other all natural fragrances as well. Do stop by and check them out!

Let’s see ~ what else about my desk can I blame for me not getting to my projects… 

…it couldn’t possibly be my computer which has a link to this….Pinterest

…where I found this gorgeous picture…Pinned Image

…which linked me to this post on Ellie’s blog…. Frog Goes to Market ~Antique Butter Mold …and where of course I saw the butter mold as well as the yellow ware and had to explore more which lead me to this blog post…

Frog Goes to Market ~ Christmas at Mom & Dad’s which was full of eye candy like this..

and this….

and this…

So I of course I just had to explore more of Ellie’s great blog (where I snatched these photos of hers to share with you) and that eventually lead to me Ellie’s Handmade Soap site!

But of course none of that kept me from getting any projects done. Honest.

Until next time ~ prim blessings and hugs, Linda

38 sweet friends left a comment here!:

bettyj said...

Oh goodness I did enjoy this post!lol I think it is all of us. When I first started reading your blog you had just found out Lili was coming. Now pre school.Time flies and family is what is important. Again good post.

Holly Hills Primitives said...

Sounds like my New England friend is keeping herself quite busy! Same around here! Our Gannon isn't doing very well and we have him most of the week. We have a big event planned for the shop on Sunday, so Dick and I are both crazy busy trying to get more things made and ready. Can't wait to see the new issue of the magazine, glad to hear that you are still going to be involved! Have a great week and just take one thing at a time, Dawn

Angie Berry said...

I don't think there is such a thing as retirement. I'm not there yet, but I have seen it many, many times. No matter what season in life we are at, there is always "busy work" to keep our lives full. You are blessed in that, this busy season of your life is full of family and friends!

Deppen homestead 1862 said...

Hello, Linda~ your desk looks wonderful~ even messy~
Ellie's home displays are pretty~ very inspiring~
So enjoy all the work you put into APP, looking forward to the new issue~ so happy that you can still do it & take care of family~ but girl I think you are amazing~ so many talents & kind hearted~
smiles
Teresa

Joy/The Olde Farmhouse said...

What a fun post,Linda, as always. But I think you really did say it all and I, too can just blame my "house" for being so far behind. So happy DD found "The Dress: and it was such a wonderful experience for you both. Nothing like Mom and Daughter having a little "alone" time. Thanks for sharing "your desk." Mine is worse! LOL
{{HUGS}}
Joy

Lee Hill Primitives said...

You are so blessed to have the expertise to work with Lily and your folks as well.Thanks for sharing this new blog, her pictures are simply amazing.

prims by olde lady morgan said...

Linda,

Pinterest is VERY VERY BAD!!! LOL!!! Oh the eye candy, makes me want more, YIKES! that is a bad thing!
Now your desk... even at it's worst is very neat compared tothe one I am typing at now...sigh...hubby and I both sahre this desk, so it's never neat!OLM

adsgram said...

So...now I have added yet another blog to the list! I used to collect frogs back in the day, so anything with Frog in the title still intrigues my interest! Can't wait to read all about it!

Girl, you have lots more fun stuff coming up this year mixed in with the less fun. You also deserve to take some time for you and your stitching and stenciling, too! I am sure there will be pictures---can't wait to see them!

Have a great week...
♥,Lynne

Faye Henry said...

I so loved this post.. We are all so busy although we are supposed to be semi retired..
Your pics are gorgeous.. I wish my messes looked so great.. grin..
God bless my dear..,

Sheila said...

Hello Dear Linda~
thanks for the sneak peak and Jen's "perfect" dress! How exciting and busy the next few months will be for everyone.
Our grandchildren are growing so quickly. Little Alex started skiing this past weekend-he's three and Jonas who is 5 started snowboarding this season! He will be attending an awesome school this fall with hands on gardening, learning and taking care of domestic animals, etc. I'm excited for him!
I love this chapter of my life as I'm sure you do as well.
Enjoy every moment~
Blessings,
Sheila

Linda said...

Hi Linda
As usual I so enjoyed reading a new post from you. You sound very busy but very happy and well, and that's most important.
When I first found your blog you were all excited about becoming a Grandma soon. I knew you would love every minute of that too.
Have a productive February!
Linda

Mercy Otis/The Stone House said...

Glad to hear about your folks.
Sheeeeesh, where do the years melt away too?
You ARE a VERY busy woman! Good luck getting away from your desk! LOL
And true to form, I enjoyed my visit here with you via blog land.
We have also had a mild winter, so much so that there is the worry of no water for hay crops this summer. I am NOT a winter/snow lover of any kind whatsoever, but we desperately need snow here in Eastern Utah.
The little peek of the dress was fun! Lots of work to be done, but ah, the pleasure that kind of work brings!
Enjoy
Mercy

winterberryprimitives said...

Linda your desk is still beautiful even when filled with work to do!
Loved this Blog Post...they are always interesting ...but loved hearing all about the wedding plans and dress! The fabric looks sooo elegant!
Hugzzzzzzzzz

Wendy/TheCozyYellowHouse said...

LOL..Thats it for sure, those darn desks!!:0) You are one busy lady, probably more busy now that you are "retired" then when you worked!! So glad to hear things are coming along for your baby girls wedding, and that sweet little Lili is doing just fine!! And how wonderful your parents have still been able to be a part of your wonderful family dinners!!:0) Take care my wonderful friend!!<3

ctlogcabin said...

Dear Linda ~~
Great Post .... I'm so Happy "The Dress" has been Found .. what a Special and Exciting time for both of you. EnJoy every minute.
I cant believe your Darling Lili will be attending school in Sept. I too remember waiting for her to arrive.
I am so very behind ... I have the Jan slows, and now I too am on Pinterest ..... so Additive and Fun.
I can "Get Lost in Space" looking around. lol
Happy MoM & DaD got to another Family Dinner,
Good Luck on the search for Help, and
God Bless all of You !!
Big Hugs ~~ Connie xox

StitchinByTheLake said...

Linda I can sympathize with you - it seems to me that the more I do the more I still have left to do. Right now you have some major things happening with the upcoming wedding and at the same time helping your parents. Be sure to take time for you so that you will be able to take care of everyone else. blessings, marlene

Jan said...

Linda, Your beautiful desk doesn't look bad at all.If you think it is a mess, it's a SWEET mess with all the wedding goods!! What a wonderful time for your family. (Love the peek at THE DRESS!! ) I always enjoy the photos you post. And Lili!!! Starting preschool!! Growing up so fast!! Busy, busy, busy--but I think we will all look back at our crazy busy times as our happiest times.Jan-Life on Buttermilk Hill

Neabear said...

Such a fun post! Such a busy life you have right now! I can't believe your little granddaughter is old enough to be going to pre-school! Sheesh where does the time go?!?

I agree, gotta blame it on the desk.

~Linnea

Janet - underthewillow said...

Cute post Linda!...I'll have to check out that blog when I have some time, the pics look lovely...so glad to hear your parents were able to attend Jay's birthday dinner, that's so special!

Janet

Never So Simple said...

Oh Linda I'm just so happy my desk looks like that all the time. I always see everyone's post of there deak and work space and wonder how do they do it? How do they keep everything so clean?

I am so happy for you and your daughter. From what little bit I could see her gown looks gorgeous.

I am also addicted to pintrest.

Donna

Karen said...

Besides enjoying your post and pictures you had my chuckling as well. I'm so happy for your daughter and for you - what a magical moment it had to be when it all came together. It will be a busy and exciting few months. I can't believe that Lili is heading to preschool in the fall - YIKES that time has flown - but I don't have to tell you that. Looking forward to getting the magazine in the mail soon. Now I'm off to check out your link to the soap :)

Hugs Dear Friend - Karen

~The Robin's Nest~ said...

Oooooh what I see of the dress I LOVE! I'm so happy for all of you. Though my son and DIL decided to get married quick we had already picked out and paid for the dress-What a wonderful bonding time...I'm so happy you and your daughter got the place to yourselves and really could enjoy the moment. I'm so excited for you! My daughter is getting married March 9th-So after this I will have only one son out of five kids that aren't married.

Blessings to you my friend!

Penelope's Beehive said...

Such a delightful post! And the photographs...be still my heart!
How exciting for your daughter...such an important decision surely. I feel certain that her dress will be PERFECT!
Wishing you peaceful evenings stitching up the penny rug...I shall look forward to ogling the finish.
Warmly,
Judy

The Hoskins' Family said...

Good Morning Linda, you sound busy as a bee! I think alot of us feel that way this day in age. Whatever happen to those days of relaxation? I work full time and on weekends I attend my son's hockey games along with my daugthers skating and so on. Children and life just seems to keep us all so busy!
Well hoping you do get some down time for yourself! We all need it!

Take Care
Lynnly

Lynn @ Painting Thyme Needfuls said...

OH Linda I have that problem too! Just not enough hours in the day...and you certainly have plenty on your to-do list! Such precious family moments are keeping you busy....I often wonder how I did all that I did when my 3 were young! I have all this "me-thyme" now and at the end of each day I say "where did it go?"You are not alone.....carry on GF!
Hugs,
Lynn

Kris said...

Hello, hello, hello!!!! You have been busy as usual. Yea..you found THE dress! It looks very pretty from what I can see!!! ; ) I know you can't show it..not yet.
Glad all is well with you!!!
Hugs,
Kris

Karen/My Colonial Home said...

How funny Linda...we had a little show n tell on a forum this week...what's behind this or that...lol
Goodness lady I think you sound like most of us who try and juggle 10 things at once...always having something in the wings that needs doing or something we want to do. Guess it's just our nature. But I guess it keeps us going...trying to reach the next goal.
Enjoyable read!
Karen

The Country Nest said...

Hi Linda,
You desk still looks so neat, you should see my mess....
I can't wait to see the Spring issue. Local homes for me. I know you are enjoying some wonderful times with Jen, you are blessed!
Nice photos. I have become addicted to Pinterest! I am spending way too much time there.
Hugs,
Donna

Y1M said...

:DDD WELL WELL!!! So inspiring...guess what the look of your desk caused me to do? Clean my desk...plus sorted a little too.

You are one busy lady I tell you...goodness. How do you juggle it all? You are truely a woman of so many trades and great energy to accomplish it all.

I know there's a Beautiful Bride in the future...the details on that dress, Wow!

Now off to complete this desk...I'm almost there. :)

Hugs to you,
Marlene

Carole said...

You've taken the words out of my mouth! I still haven't written thank you notes and although all my excuses are valid, they're still so lame. Where on earth did January go? Maybe it's because it's been so warm that somewhere in our heads we didn't even think that it happened and therefore we aren't late at all. Makes sense to me ... or is it just another lame excuse????? LOL

Carla said...

Nice post but You can still see desk space I can't on my desk. Right now I can't get to my desk because my cutting table is in front of it. LOL.
I know what you mean about getting side tracked with ummm Pinterest
So many fun and inspiring things.
Enjoyed reading your blog.

Sharon said...

I can see that your desk has a very organized mess.!!
My desk is a mess but don't look half as nice as yours. I guess I don't have stacks just mess.
I enjoyed reading your post however.
Have a great weekend.
Hugs

Grammy Staffy said...

Well I can surely tell that your desk has prevented you from blogging. How can you blog when that darn desk is so demanding???? I completely understand the problem you are facing because my desk looks even worse!!!! ...and... mine is holding me captive too. I think desks should come with a warning that they may be a hazard to your health!

It sounds like you are busy with many good things. I am glad you gals found the perfect dress. I am sure she will look beautiful.

Have fun with Lili this week.... don't worry about blogging. Even though I miss you I know that it is hard to fight against "the desk".
Hugs, Grammy L

basketsnprims said...

Linda, What a wonderful post. I am so glad your parents were able to join the party. The peek of Jen's dress is gorgeous. You have not seen a mess until you have seen my desk, YIKES. I keep plugging along. The grands are sure growing up quickly aren't they? Liam is almost finished with his first year of preschool and loves it. take good care, my friend.
hugs,
pam

Gettysburg Homestead said...

Wow!!! Linda you sure do have a lot on your plate. But what fun it'll be looking for a preschool for your sweetie :-)

Thanks for the eye candy and link :)

Mary

Chris said...

Hi Linda, just stopping by to say how delightful your blog is. Thanks so much for sharing. I have recently found your blog and am now following you, and will visit often. Please stop by my blog and perhaps you would like to follow me also. Have a wonderful day. Hugs, Chris
http://chelencarter-retiredandlovingit.blogspot.com/

Grammy Staffy said...

Hello again dear. I am just dropping by again to say that I miss you and give you a hug. Have a good week.

Tammy ~ Country Girl at Home ~ said...

I totally understand, Linda!

I can't believe Lili is preschool age already....where does the time go?

And I know what you mean about one thing leading to another....seems that is my life story these days.

Your post gives me permision.....I'm blaming mine on the dining room table. :)

Hugs,
Tammy