Friday, June 10, 2011

Doing what I love best…

…okay second best! I love being with my family best, but coming in a close second is decorating. What?? You didn’t know that?? 

I just love being the keeper of our home. But I often wonder how it happens that some of us are this way and others are not. My sister could care less about being at home, maintaining a home, or decorating a home even though we were raised by the same mother who did it all from upholstery to drapery making to furniture refinishing to canning her own produce from her own gardens. Martha Stewart couldn’t begin to compare to my mom before Alzheimer’s robbed her of all that.

My daughter is not nearly as interested in cooking, decorating, and domestic arts as I am either. I know she loves and appreciates what I do, but she is not like me at all in that way. Then again, I can’t dance and do the splits like she can either! Whatever makes some of this way, I am really glad I do enjoy it. I can’t think of anything more fulfilling than making a house a home and haven for me, Mr. Red Door, family and friends.

Okay, I will admit, for some us though it goes waaaay beyond that. Yes, we belong to a special group. Tweakers International I am calling it. I saw those homes in the summer issue of APP that were across the big pond and I know many a prim decorator up there in Canada and I see visitors from all the world who stop by my blog so it isn’t limited to just in the good ole USA.  I volunteer to be the first President of this new group. Are you ready to join?? I am collecting the dues right now. What dues you ask? Your dues are one piece of redware or an antique basket or piece of pewter. Just leave me a message if you need my mailing address.  Not sure if you qualify for this exclusive group? Well if this describes you, get ready to join…

We can’t leave well enough alone. We get it just right and take 300 pictures from every angle on every camera setting during the day and at twilight. We burn our $12 beeswax candles down to the nub to get the pictures just right. Then we post the pics on our blog and FB and Picture Trails and before the web pages are even published we have already tweaked it and of course it is EVEN  BETTER, so we have to start all over again. Sound like you or some you know??  Who just said MY name out loud? I heard YOU! Are you ready to join yet??

Well thank goodness for us – huh?  Same old same old would get pretty darn boring, wouldn’t it? LOL I can hear the men folk saying “NO NO NO! I want same old same old. Just once I want to come home and know EXACTLY where everything is.”

Poor Mr. Red Door. The only time the house didn’t change was when I was in the hospital! He didn’t even get a chance to enjoy same old as he was so worried about me. Recently when I asked for his help to un-assemble a bit piece of furniture, he asked me “Honey, why do we have to keep changing things?’” I told him “We can keep the same house and I can keep changing things in it or we can keep changing houses. It’s no different than you going to play golf over and over and over. You have already hit the little white ball on the same course with the same clubs hundreds of times but you keep doing it to see if the outcome is different – better. It’s the same with me and my decorating. I need to see if the outcome is different – better. Tell you what, I’ll quit when you quit.”  He just smiled and went golfing.  Good man!! 

So that is what I do and why. And I am here to share it all with you and I won’t even bother to explain what has already changed since I took these pictures. HA!!

You know I love me some redware and I got 2  new pieces recently from Turtlecreek Pottery. I put this plate here in the dining room. Lili is fascinated with this little bureau lately so the décor is set up with things she either ignores or can’t hurt. 063

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And I got a wee little plate too and put it in my office ~ which has seen a lot of changes. Notice I didn’t call it office/guest room anymore?

This is to the left as you stand in the doorway. 026 (2)

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And more changes in here…. this is straight ahead when you stand in the doorway…082

This is where I blog. That red cabinet on top of my desk was in the laundry room/bathroom downstairs but someone told me I needed it upstairs somewhere. So I moved it up here. Well Mr. Rd Door moved it up here. I won’t tell you what he wanted me to say to my friend with that bright idea! Good thing she lives all the way down in Columbia, SC. 084

Oh now look at that? Is she not the cutest little bear sitting there. Want a closer look?076

Why it is one of the very special A Primitive Place magazines collectors series summer bears. Hand crafted and designed exclusively for APP by the very talented Lana Testa of Winterberry Primitives. Well look at her, she can’t bear to part with her summer issue! 092

To order YOUR very own APP collectors bear or any of the previous dolls in the series, you can click ~here~. 

To go to Lana’s blog, click ~here~. Hopefully she will be sharing some of her garden pictures soon! Her home and yard are just gorgeous! How do I know… well just wait for the fall issue for that answer!

So continuing around the room…008

Yes, I know, I still haven’t hid that TV. Some things take time you know…. 026

Going around to this corner… did you notice something missing? It is the daybed we moved down to the family room. 002 (3)

Now when I have an overnight guest, they will have privacy, a TV, a microwave and dorm refrigerator at their disposal and access to their own bathroom for their stay. Oh no, I guess that means I need to find something to replace the red cupboard we moved up here won’t I? 005 (2)

I moved an older wing back chair up from the family room so I have a place to read and relax. And I moved my little antique desk and ladder back from the living room in here too. I am not quite done with this space, but it is getting there. I am looking for just the right piece to replace that shelf/peg rack and I’d love a new chair at some point.  007

So you ask, what took the place of the desk in the living room? Well the dry sink of course! Remember I got the antique dough box table and new lamp for over here where the dry sink used to be? I already tweaked this since you last saw it and put my old black stockings on the blanket crane. 048

So here is the dry sink  and  the AWESOME new Kathy Graybill tavern sign I got to hang above it. 038

I am in love! 055

I got it from one my favorite sources for colonial goodies Circa Home Living. I have admired tavern signs in several homes for some time now and I decided I just had to have one. Circa Home Living has several different styles to choose from so it was hard to decide. But the colors and size and design of this one spoke to me. If this speaks to you or to see the other designs offered, you can go their online catalog if you click ~here~! Noel and Verge are a pleasure to do business with!

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See the black iron candle holder? They sell that in their catalog too. They also have opened Circa Home Sampler in Nobleboro, ME in the Nobleboro  Antique Exchange if you are in the area. I need to find myself in that area sometime soon! You can read more about it on their blog if you click ~here~.023

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Most of this post was written before I had my little stay in the hospital so I wanted to take time now to say thank you for all of the well wishes and prayers and comments after my last post. I am so sorry that so many others are also feeling the same stresses in their lives while doing their best to help ill and aging parents,  but it is a comfort to know there are others to commiserate with. It is both immensely rewarding and immensely difficult at the same time.

This once again reminds me that bloggers and prim friends are truly the best! If we could bottle up all the love and goodwill I have seen in blog land since I started blogging  over 3 years ago and we spread it out to places that need it the most, there would be no more war or hunger or poverty. I am sure of that! And to be on the receiving end of some of that goodwill is just the most amazing feeling ever. I felt so warm reading all the comments and prayers and love. My eyes leaked more than once.  For that, I thank you from the bottom of my heart!!

Until next time – prim blessings, Linda

32 sweet friends left a comment here!:

Anonymous said...

Hi Linda,
Superb blog once again...I LOVE it all. Like an antique, your house gets better with age! Thanks for sharing the beautiful eye candy and having my heart skip a beat with joy!
Best regards,
Joanne from NJ

Tammy ~ A Primitive Place said...

Hi Linda,
Thanks for the smile you gave me ready this post.
I needed that today!
Sign me up for the club.
I'll have to send ya an IOU for the dues.
;)
I loved the comparison you gave Mr RD or decorating and golfing.
I never thought of it that way, but you are so correct!
And thanks for all the wonderful pictures.
Infact, heading back up to look again and again.
Take care,
Tam

Sandy said...

Hi Linda,

I'm SOLD...LOL...I can be Vice-Pres ;) My husband says the same to me or he thinks alot of times I got something new. I always need the kids to vouch for me to say that I had it for awhile. Just found a new home instead. But I have to say...I LOVE the way you compared your decortating to his golfing...CUTE!

As you know, my issues have nothing to do with older parents but I have been there one too many times. I just want to get through this month and then look forward to summer with friends and family :)

I am soooo in love with your home! You always place everything in the right spot. Your office makeover looks great! And that tavern sign...I am in love!!! I have admired their website for quite sometime now and all of their tavern signs. I just may get one someday...someday. In the meantime, we are not selling so we are making a few changes around the house. I can't wait for it all to be done so I can share. I am soooo excited. A little something to keep my mind occupied.

You take care of yourself and take all the time YOU need. Because it is so true what you said in your previous post. We need to take care of ourselves.

You made me smile when you mentioned all the love that is out there in blogland. Wouldn't it be so nice if we all could meet together someday. A retreat of some sort. Everyone that I talk to are so kind. My little Abby is the same way. My husband actually said that if the world had so much love to give like our Abby did, then there would be no wars or fighting. So similar to what you just said.

OK...I said enough :) Take care!
Sandy xoxo

Wendy/TheCozyYellowHouse said...

Linda you know I LOVE it!! You just know how to do it right!! I want to be a part of the club, put me down!!LOL!! Tweak here, tweak there, thats me!!:0) So glad you are feeling better my friend!!~hugs~

debbied said...

Wow!!!! I can so identify with this blog. I love decorating. It is my passion. My sister also is the same as yours. It does not interest her at all. I also have a daughter that dances and does cartwheels. She owns her own studio !! My husband has a hard time understanding why I always change things around. He says he loves our house just the way it is.I think he just is afraid of those dreaded words NEW PROJECT!!! He would much rather be on the golf course than painting a room!!!! Really love your blogs!!!! Glad you are feeling better!!! DEB

basketsnprims said...

Linda,
I am so glad that you are feeling better and I love your "tweaking". I would love to join the club and like Tammy I will have to send an IOU, not sure when I'll pay since you didn't have baskets on the list, lol. Enjoy your weekend and as always I enjoyed my visit behind your red door.
hugs,
pam

Kris said...

Hi Linda,
I had to laugh at your analogy about golf and tweaking! SO great. My husband always wonders why I move things too. He would be perfectly happy to live in a house EXACTLY the same way forever! NO WAY...not me!!! Oh, and btw..he is golfing tomorrow!! And I shall be home...tweaking!!!
SO happy you are feeling just fine!!
Hugs,
Kris

winterberryprimitives said...

Loved the latest blog post Linda, your home is amazing
everything looks wonderful!
The bear looks adorable, and you get to keep her company while you work!

hugzzzzzzzzzzzz

Farm Field Primitives said...

Actually, I think it should be called Tweakers Anonymous!! Are there meetings held somewhere? I could host a local chapter also....you are too funny!! Hope you are doing better. Take care of yourself and keep those wonderful pictures rolling!!
~Melissa~

Green Creek Primitives said...

Yes that is what I am a Tweaker, can't leave anything alone. Sometime when my grown son comes by I will tell him I need his help, then I get the look, and then he says didn't I just move that.LOL. He told me one day I would move the house if I could, well actually, I would turn it a little that way. Gotta love kids, especially those who can move big objects. I love your office, actually I love your whole house, love the little red cabinet and the little bear, its nice to have a place to call your own. Thanks for sharing your wonderful home, glad I am not alone on moving items every few minutes. Infact thats what I am doing this morning, tweaking. Take care, Vicky

Anonymous said...

WOW, Linda, I know you said you would have "some" pictures to show everyone, but you've been outdoing yourself. I thought you were going to rest for a while.. I know how it is though, the ideas can race through our minds while our "bods" are resting.
It is a "good thing" that you have some smaller pieces to move along with the big ones. It has gotten so that after forty four years of living in my home, I'm running out of space to move anything. I'm like you, though, if you're not going to move, then move what you have in your home for a change of scenery.
All of your new "tweaking" ideas have given your lovely home a fresh and as usual, an inviting look. I'm sure your ideas have given all of us, who share your interests, more ideas to use in our homes also.
Your Mom was blessed to have two daughters who are giving her so much love and attention in her "golden years", as you feel blessed to have had her as your Mom for so many years.
I'm looking forward to receiving the Fall issue of APP magazine..
Have fun with whatever you decide to do next.
Best wishes, Charlotte in Virginia

Janice said...

So sorry to hear about your stay in the hospital! Things like that are never fun.

I also laughed out loud when you compared your tweaking to your husbands golf game...I'm stealing that line the next time my husband comments on me moving things around! : )

Your house is beautiful as always...the tavern sign and lamp are beautiful (I'm jealous) and I love the office make over. Keep up the good work Linda, you never disappoint!

Take Care,
Janice

Carla said...

Love the changes, Linda! Your office looks great! I'm glad you are feeling better and hope you stay that way!
Hugs!

Meadowbrook Cabin Primitives said...

Hi Linda,

Well, I have some longaberger baskets I might part with, but not my few pieces of peweter ! I would love to join !! :o)

As always, your decor is just so inspiring and inviting !

I love that tavern sign ! It would go so nicely with my pony express bag. I would love to have a tavern room and a cage bar.

Thank you for the link to that awesome Home Living site !

Hugs,
Linda

Lorna/Live Oak Primitive Peddler said...

Hi Linda, I missed your last post but just read it and so glad that you were okay. What a harrowing experience!! And then the hospital stay sounds like a nightmare. So glad all turned out well!!
I love looking at your pics, your home is just beautiful!!
And yes I could join your Tweaker Club!! The other day my DIL asked me why I keep moving things. My answer...I just love to tweak!!8-)
Have a great week-end!!
Blessings,
Lorna

•♦•The Olde Weeping Cedar •♦• said...

Oh Thank Goodness there are "others" out there who can grasp this crazy TWEAKING thing!!! It's all very "normal" to me!
You've described ME to a "T" even down to the burning the candles into lil melted nubs! LOL! ;) Love all the changes you've made around the home! Always perfect touches...never to too much...or too little...always-always Perfect :) ....and....Beautiful photos!
Enjoy your weekend.

Bama said...

Hi Linda! This is a great post! I think you deserve to be President of the club! LOL! With lots of loyal followers too.
Your home always looks great and your little touches make all the difference. I love your analogy of tweaking and the explanation you gave your hubby! Priceless!
I hope you are feeling great these days and getting the peace & rest you need to handle the other stuff.
Take care!
~Carolyn

Linda said...

Hi Linda, I read your earlier post just now. I'm so glad you survived your ordeal. It always amazes me how rude and annoying patients and family/visitors can be in a hospital setting. I have been fortunate not to have to share a room but my father was not during his illnesses. It sounds like you had a full-fledged panic attack. I've had many minor ones...very scary. I've found that breathing techniques I learned in yoga are very helpful.
I'm a tweaker too. I find it very relaxing actually, lots of fun. I alternate that with rearranging my fabric stash. I love to handle my fabric!!!
I love reading your blog and seeing your photos! Your home is my dream house!
Hugs,
another Linda

janet said...

So glad ya are feeling better..I love the new look of the office and I know I qualify for the Tweaker Club..One time my husband came home from work and didn't turn any lights on..went to sit down..and ya can figure out the rest..he hit the floor..Well it's funny now to him..He now is not suprised by anything I do and actually helps out a lot..Only 34 years in the making and I've got him where I want him..LOL..I have always loved to change things up to give the room a new look..It costs nothing and makes ya feel good being the keeper of the home..
Janet

StitchinByTheLake said...

As usual I just want to a complete makeover of my house and do it just like yours. It looks so welcoming and so homey - wonderful, of course! blessings, marlene

The Prim Colonial said...

Oh, it sounds like you are feeling better. Everything looks lovely. I always love to see what you have done! I am a club member for sure. I wish I had more options for moving furniture around. Take care of yourself...you have inspired me to go tweak again!
~~ Beth

Lydia said...

Linda - first let me say I'm VERY happy you're feeling better!
Love all that tweaking - you're still such an inspiration for me!!
That's a wonderful Tavern sign - belongs in that exact spot. As usual everything is great.

Lydia

Y1M said...

Happy Sunday President Linda!!! ;DDD Love the bear, what a wonderful suprise huh? Your home Linda is amazing...if I only had the time(well, if I leave this computer, I might can make the time), know how, and patience you have. Must admit to you though...I've gotten a few pointers from you girl. Love your colors. I still think you have one of the most gorgeous homes.

It's so wonderful to hear from you, knowing you are doing well.

Huge Hug,
Marlene

Grammy Staffy said...

Dearest Grammee L,
I have not been blogging this past week. I am so sorry that I did not know you were in the hospital. What a scary experience for you. I hope that you are OK and doing well now.I am sure that Mr. Red Door, your family and all your friends are were very worried. You are dear to me and I am thankful it did not turn out to be a real heart attack.... Please...please... take care of yourself... and delete some of the stresses in your life.

However, I have to confess that your description of the hospital made me laugh....but only because I could relate so well. My 1st 3 weeks in ICU I was in a private room & too sick to complain.... but for 2 of the 3 weeks I was in the rehab hospital, I had a room mate who got the window bed. She froze while I melted.... she loved basketball and watched it everyday during the playoffs..... but she was a sweet gal and we became friends. However, whether it is for 1 night or 45.... being in the hospital is not fun. I can totally relate to how glad you were to get back home.

As you know from one of my recent posts, I do not qualify to be in your Tweakers club. In fact, I get tired and have to rest from just reading about all the work and tweaking you do. So, can you form a Vicarious Tweakers International club? I would qualify for that one.

Take care dear... be well. Many hugs, Grammy L

The Hoskins' Family said...

Hi Linda, glad to see your feeling better and getting back to tweaking!!!

I am kind of in the same boat as you, no one in my family decorates or cares to decorate like I do. My mom always ask's where I got my knack to decorate as my sister doesn't like any prim decor. Well I have to give you and some other follow bloggers credit for this and as well as Country Sampler Magazine and when I found blogging I fell in love with so many homes and your's is on the top of my list, well now I am addicted to primitive decorating and love everything old!!! Thanks so much for helping me get involved with such a great way of decorating!!!

I love that you told Mr. Red Door that your love for tweaking is as big as his love for golf. I need to use that one for my husband. But I am glad I am not the only who's husband just wants things to stay the same! LOL!
Love your new purchases!!! And can't wait to see more of your tweaking!!! Your home always amazes me and you are so wonderful at your decorating!! Love the simpleness of your decor!!! You are really rubbing off on my me and I hope to some day have such a beautiful home as yours!

Glad your feeling better and have a great week!!

Hugs
Lynnly

aduttinger said...

linda everything looks wonderful . my hubby just can't understand the redecorating either . I blame it on my mom ,just following in her footsteps . so glad to hear you're feeling better. blessings, Anne

deb said...

I adore being home and taking care of my home more than anything!!! all I can say about your home is SWOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!
amazing...gorgeous and I covet everything in it!!!!

The Prim Colonial said...

checking on you to be sure you are doing ok! ~~ Beth

Tammy ~ Country Girl at Home ~ said...

Wow...Linda! I just caught up on your ordeal! I'm SO glad you are okay. Sounds like a lovely stay! lol!

Sorry you had to spend your anniversary that way! I think your outlook is right on and you did the right thing being checked out!

As always, I enjoy your decorating pictures so much! Your home decor is beautiful, but so is your photography of it! Thanks for sharing the beauty with us!

Lots of love!
Tammy

Priscilla said...

I adore your house! and have been viewing your lovely posts for a while now. I am trying to create a similar look in my own home.I am having a difficult time though trying to create beautiful sections.The things we live with everyday like clothes, coats shoes,and other annoying everyday items are getting in the way! lol How do you get around this? Do you store your more ordinary 2011 items in other rooms? or just hide them all really well.I just love this old simple style of decorating... ;) thank you xx

Patty said...

just found your blog and love it. I am a transplanted Bostonian, living in Texas and miss seeing homes like yours.
I too am a happy keeper at home, have been for nearly 33 years now. Living simply and loving life

Janice said...

Your posts are always so great! Thanks for all the eye candy, I could spend hours on your blog...looking through old and new posts. And I can't believe Lili is almost 2 already, my Ella is 2 in July, time goes by too fast!

Take Care,
Janice