Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Let’s play a matching game, and a long goodbye…



Thank you to all my repeat visitors and welcome all new visitors and followers. I think you are going to really enjoy this post – it is full of what we all just love – primitive eye candy!! As promised here are some more of the photos that didn’t make it to print in the spring issue.


Now for the fun part… can you match them to the four homes in the magazine that I had the pleasure of photographing?


Here’s #1 ….


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Did you figure that one out??



Here’s #2 …


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Still not sure? Well how about #3…


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and last but in no way least, here is #4…074


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I hope you figured out which is which and enjoyed playing my little match game. Maybe we can play again after the summer issue makes it’s debut! If you haven’t gotten your subscription yet, what are you waiting for?? Click ~HERE~ to find out how to subscribe, about wholesale orders, where to buy it, and to get answers to most of your magazine related questions!


If you are planning to attend the Country Spirits Show in Arcola, IL in March, then you will have a chance to meet some of the APP staff! We are excited to let you know that A Primitive Place magazine will be at the Country Spirit show in Arcola, IL on March 4th & 5th.


Meet: Senior Writer, Dan Weaver


Stylist/Contributing Writer, Kimberlee Johnson


Publisher/Editor, Kristine Berg Doss



Assistant Editor/Contributing Writer, Jeremy A. Doss


Stop by our booth and pick up the spring issue! We will also have a few of the Holiday issue on hand for purchase.


Click ~HERE~ for all the details!


Don’t forget the New England crew has two events coming up in MA as well. Check my previous post for all the details!


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Our blogging friend Sheila over at Seasons of thy Heart posted about a wonderful service for women battling cancer. Cleaning for a Reason offers free home cleaning services for women going through chemo treatments. PLEASE pass this info on! Click ~HERE~ to find out more about this great service!


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Way back when I started blogging, one of my most faithful followers and commenters was a very sweet gal Kathy. Kathy and I emailed for awhile and I so enjoyed chatting with her. Unfortunately at some point we lost touch. But recently Kathy started her own blog The Heart of the Home and I am thrilled to be able to mention it here. Kathy shares the struggles and frustrations of raising a family, keeping a home, and juggling all those hats many women wear. She happens to be avid quilter too. To meet Kathy and to see some of her gorgeous quilts, please click ~HERE~!


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I also promised I’d share the new piece of redware that I ordered from my friend Janet. If you missed my last post, she recently began carrying a line of made in the USA redware on her website Winter Willow Primitives. It all started several months ago when Janet asked me about this piece of redware that I have owned for many years..


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I think you can guess why she liked that particular piece – the willow tree.


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Janet asked me for any info I had on it and all I could give her was the name etched in the back. We did some research and found that artist. Janet was able to contact her and get the plate reproduced and now she carries it and other pieces from the same artist on her website. I was thrilled that it worked out so well for Janet. And of course when I saw the great pieces she was offering, I knew I had to have another one. I finally settled on this adorable little square plate…


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Isn’t it darling?? It is a perfect fit in the little cabinet in our bedroom, don’t you think?017


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My heart is heavy tonight. This afternoon we took Lili to see my folks. You see today is my mom’s 82nd birthday and though we are having a party for her this weekend, I knew she would love some snuggles with Lili today. Lili was charming and delightful and loving with my mom. I could see the joy she brought to both of my parents. She was the best gift we could give my mom right now. Joy in the moment. As many of you know, my mom has Alzheimer's and is slowly failing. It is so sad to see the once vibrant woman slipping away. The body works amazingly well for her age but the mind is another story. If you are new to my blog, my mom was one of the most creative and talented woman I have ever known. You name it, she did it and did it well. Martha Stewart couldn’t hold a candle to her. That is no exaggeration. If you click on MOM under labels in my sidebar, you can read about just some of the things my mom did in her lifetime. But today my mom couldn’t remember how to play her piano. It about broke my heart. I grew up doing my homework to piano music. At one time my mom owned an organ, an upright piano and an electric piano. She played every day of her life until just a few months ago. Now it is but one more thing lost to her and lost to the rest of her family as well. It is incredibly sad. As many of my friend’s call it – “the long goodbye”.


Today I am thankful for:


All the cassette tapes I own of my mom playing the piano and singing to and reading to my children when they were young.


The primitive portraits of my children that my mom painted when they were young.




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All the creative skills I learned at my mother’s side.


The memories of all the wonderful times she created for our family over the years.


The time we have left to make more memories and share joy in the moment.



Thanks so much for stopping by and letting me share a little of my world with you today. If your mom is still around, right now tell her how much you love her. You won’t be sorry.


Until next time – hugs from Bev’s blonde and blue eyed daughter

41 sweet friends left a comment here!:

Wendy/TheCozyYellowHouse said...

Linda my heart is hurting for you my friend, it will not be an easy road, but know we are here for you! Love you and will be praying for you all. ~hugs~

Ceekay- Thinkin of Home said...

I am so sad that your mom has this robbing disease. My grandmother had it also and it is so hard to watch.
I love that tree plate. I don't have a prim home, but in my heart, I am still country!

Dan said...

Linda~

As always, what a wonderful post. I am so sorry about you mom. I can only imagine how hard this is for all of you. All I can do is pray that God will give you peace during this difficult time and know that you have a friend in Illinois who is thinking of you and thinks you are the greatest. Those tapes will become even more cherished as the years go by and Lili can hear her great-grandma play the piano whenever she wants.

I think I got all the pictures correct. I promise I did not look at the magazine either. I guess I do have an advantage though. Anyway, here is my answers:

1. Take a Gander at This
2. The Road Paved with Primitive Intentions
3. A Fox in Sheep's Clothing
4. Made with Love

How did I do?

I hope you have a great week and if you ever need anything, you know where to find me.

~Dan~

LibbiesHome said...

Oh Linda, what a lovely post for so many reasons. I love all the "extra" pictures that didn't make it into the magazine! How do you guys ever choose?!? These homes are just absolutely gorgeous.
My husband and I have had some experience with alzheimers (both of his grandmas),and I understand "the long good-bye". Tough stuff for sure.
I wanted to let you know that there is a way that isn't all the tricky to get those cassette tapes transfered to the computer and onto CD if you need/want to. If that is something you would like to do at some point, I'd be glad to help you learn how to do that.
Blessings to you and yours.
Melissa

adsgram said...

Thanks for another picture-filled and thought provoking post, Linda. I will be calling MY Mom in the morning and a bit more often now. Dad has been gone for over 26 years now, and Mom has moved to NY state, so I don't have her close, but I can call.

My SIL lost her Dad to Alzheimer's, and it is a cruel disease. I know that nothing can stop it's progression, but I can wish for you and your family to have as much peace during the course of her illness as possible. You will have lots of pictures and stories for Lili and she will know her Great-Meemee through you. God bless you, my friend..

♥♥,
Lynne

StitchinByTheLake said...

My heart aches for you. I lost my mom in 2004 and I miss her every day. She had a passion for birds and for growing things. For three days there's been a cardinal serenading me for literally hours outside my bedroom window so of course I think of her even more often. Mother lived for one year after she was diagnosed with a brain tumor - but she fooled the doctors who said less than 8 months. She was a strong willed woman who was determined to prove them wrong. :) Long goodbyes are bittersweet. My prayers are with you. blessings, marlene

Debbie @ ribbonwoodcottage.blogspot.com said...

HI sweet Linda! I have such a fondness for you did I ever tell you that you were one of the very first people to leave a comment for me when I first started blogging? You amazed me from the beginning with your lovely and heartfelt posts. I've always enjoyed reading your blog...seeing the amazing pictures and hearing about your precious family.
My father too has Alzheimers and every day I count a gift and a blessing. He told me he remembered when I was born and how happy he was. He's forgotten so much that comment was a huge joy bringer to me. Love hearing about your sweet little granddaughter too!
Blessings to you my friend. It is always good to come by and visit with you!
Debbie

Jennifer said...

What beautiful pictures...thanks for sharing
Im truly sorry about your Mom Linda...My aunt has MS....and its a very devasting disease and hard to witness it.or talk about it..makes me cherish every day!

Sherrie said...

Oh Linda, loved seeing the photos that didn't make it and I think I did a good job matching them. Thanks for sharing the extra "eye candy" and I love you new redware!
You know how the last part of your post hits home with me. I have watched my precious Mom suffer from this horrible disease for 8years now and as you know, it doesn't get any better.It is the most difficult disease I have ever had to deal with but I will tell you that God is still good!! There are so many days he allows me to get a glimpse of who Mom used to be and although it is brief, it causes me to realize she is still here, just trapped in her own body. You will still be able to make memories, they will just be different. She might not be able to enter your world, but you will learn how to be a part of hers and you will do it well. This disease will teach you more about love and life than you have learned from true-life experiences. You take one day at a time, and some will be better than others and you look to God for guidance and strength!! Hold all of those precious memories close to your heart and know that you have so many special friends who will be with you every step of the way!
Big warm hugs,my friend,
Sherrie

Carla said...

Linda, your post was wonderful and sad all at the same time. I'm so sorry you are having to watch your Mom's mind deteriorate. It's such a humiliating disease. My FIL is in the nursing home with Alzheimers and is physically healthy, but he just isn't the same person he used to be. So sad!
The pictures are all beautiful. It's too bad they can't all make it to print. Thank you for sharing them with us.
Have a great week and enjoy your Mom's party.
Hugs!

bettyj said...

Linda what a bittersweet post. I know Lili does brighten the moment. I had tears in my eyes when I finished reading this. Prayers
betty

on a happier note I love that little square redware plate! wow

Rugs and Pugs said...

Linda ~
My heart goes out to you. My mom had dementia last year when she passed away at age 90. My mom was a woman before her time. She always worked outside the home and she could do anything (well, not play the piano) or fix anything. It got to the point she could not set a clock or remember how to make a phone call. So sad!
Hugs :)
Lauren

Lydia said...

Linda - I too have a heavy heart after reading your post. My mom passed in 2004 (thankfully before the Katrina evacuation and all that stuff). The doctors said she had dementia - not alzheimers (seemed about the same to us) - I miss her tremendously.
Love the pictures, and I don't know how you choose what gets put in the magazine and what doesn't. They're all beautiful.
Take care!
Lydia

Janet - underthewillow said...

Hi Linda!...I haven't had any spare time lately but I wanted to be sure and comment here on your blog. It is so sad about your Mom. I can't imagine how difficult this is for your family. My heart goes out to her and to all of you.

The pictures you've posted are eye candy indeed! I'd love to be able to ponder who's houses they belong to, what fun!

Lastly, thank you ever so much for all your help with your willow tree plate! If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have found my wonderful new source for American Redware and your little floral plate looks abolutely PERFECT in your cupboard! LOVE IT!

Thank you again!
hugs,
Janet

Julie said...

Hi Linda--
Loved all the eye candy. You are a great photographer.
So sorry to hear about your Mom. I hope that you find ways to have hope and peace as you say your long goodbye to your wonderful Mom. She definetly raised an amazing daughter.
I tried the chicken and rice casserole in the spring Primitive Place magazine. We had it tonight for dinner and the family voted that it was a keeper. Thanks for such a great magazine---I love it from cover to cover.
God Bless you and your family.
Julie

Audrey said...

(((((HUGS))))

lovely post...prayers being sent.

I knew all the homes except the last one...you stumped me! ;)

Loretta said...

Hi Linda,
I will need to go back and look at the magazine again to match up those pictures!What fun!
You and Janet did a great job getting the plates reproduced.
Your mom certainly is an amazing woman. She was the centerpiece of the family and her light now shines through you in all of your wonderful talents and your love for your family! And now you are the amazing woman you are because of her! Keep those wonderful memories of your mom close to your heart!
I wish a cure were on the horizon for that dreadful disease as my MIL suffers from it as well. I pray that the progression of her disease is slow. I know how hard this is on you. Big {{{{{hugs}}}}to you!♥

ohiofarmgirl said...

Beautiful pictures, but they are diminished by the love that glows from your words about your Mother. Love her while you can. You never know what is actually happening in her reality....know you have been blessed by such a wonderful Mother. Dianntha

winterberryprimitives said...

Awww Linda I always enjoy your posts, but this one, left me with a deep sadness, for you, and your family
and it touched my heart , thinking of my own Mom, my best friend who passed in 2004
You are such a talented woman and your Mom will live on through all you do
hugz My friend

basketsnprims said...

Hi, Linda ~
I cannot imagine the pain you are in from watching your mom go downhill. It's truly heartbreaking and I will keep your family in my prayers. On a lighter note, how sweet that Lili can bring such joy to your folks if even for a few moments. I love the pics that didn't make it in the spring issue. Thank you for sharing.
hugs,
pam

LeeHillPrimitives said...

Hi Linda, You put tears in my eyes. I'm so sad about your Mom.I lost mine four years ago and I missed her a lot. I can imagine how difficult this situation is for you and your family. Hugs, Eve

The Hoskins' Family said...

Hi Linda, I am so sorry to hear about your mom.I had tears in my eyes knowing how much your family is hurting. My mom is still young and healthy to this day and I hope that it stays that way for many more years! Blessing to you and your family!
What a neat idea with the match game. I will have to go threw each pic and see what I can match up. I should be able to match them up pretty good considering I think I have looked at magazine at least 50 times by now!!!
Love the redware and actually I purchased my first 2 pieces from Janet last week and they arrived yesterday. I love them and actually bought the willow tree plate & a redware jug. I love them and I will post pics of them soon!!!

Hope you have a great weekend!!! Are you guy's in for another snow storm??? We are going to get hit again tonight with another 10-15 cm. That will put us over 100 cm this winter already. But March first is next week so if it comes in like a lion it will go out like a lamb. Keep our fingers crossed that Spring will come soon!!

Stay safe & warm!

Lynnly

Anne said...

Hi Linda,
I know how hard this is fo you!! Its like we slowly grieve for their loss now, then have to face loosing them again at some future point. Im so sad to hear this. Just remember her as she was, and enjoy who she is now while you can. The tears seem to come so easy when I talk about parents that are ill. Its something so hard to face..the ones that took care of you now need to be taken care of.
Blessings, I'll keep you in my prayers!
Anne

Pamela Gordon said...

Linda, these homes are really beautiful, lots of great antiques. You are doing a great job with the photography. Have a great day! Pamela

Holly Hills Primitives said...

Good morning my friend. Along with the others, my heart goes out to you. I watch my sweet dad go through the same confusion every day and it breaks my heart. I am so thankful that he still knows who I am and always seems so happy to see me when I visit. What a cruel way for these vibrant people to end their lives! One of these days we'll have to really "talk". Take care and enjoy your Lili, Dawn

At Home With Amy said...

Fabulous post all the way around Linda. The magazine you guys are putting out are just so delicious. I read and re-read my magazines daily.
It breaks my heart hearing this saddness you feel with your momma. My father has passed but I remember the day he said his last words to us before a stroke took his voice and expressions from him. I just pray that the Lord brings joy and sunshine to your momma every day until the end of her time on earth. I know your heart is breaking and I pray for comfort for you.
All my love,
AMY

Sheila said...

You have been so blessed to have had such an amazing mother for so long. I've enjoyed reading about you and your family the last year and a half. The long good-bye will not be an easy one and my heart goes out to you. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
May God continue to surround you with His love and give you the strength you will need in the days ahead.
Hugs,
Sheila

Cora from Hidden Riches said...

My heart is hurting so much for you, Linda! Time and time again, you hear people say that at least we have our memories. . .! It doesn't seem fair when even that is taken. But it is YOU, Linda, that blessed me so today. It was YOUR memories - so sweet, and so loving! They live on in you, continuing to bless and keep you strong. Thank you for that! I'm praying for you as you journey down this road with your Mom! Keep singing! Keep the song alive!

SANDI said...

Hello Linda-
I am sorry to hear about your mother. But I do understand, completely what you and your family are going through.
I have worked in a nursing home for many years...I work daily with Alzheimer's and Dementia patients. And it is sad to see there lives just slip away and not be able to remember things. My heart goes out to these people and to their families. Cherish the memories and the good times you had.
I Love working with the elderly. It is a very rewarding job. I love to herar the stories that some tell from long ago.
I will be keeping you and your mom in my thoughts and prayers! Take Care!
sandraallen260@centurytel.net

puddie said...

Oh, my heart breaks for you...I too lost my Mom almost 2 years ago in March. My Dad died about a year previously and Mom was depressed, but surviving. She fell and broke her hip, then had hip replacement surgery, and was put into a care facility. Mom then decided she wanted to go be with Dad in heaven, stopped eating, stopped any kind of therapy, and slept a lot. We lost her within two months..the 2 hardest months of my life. Enjoy the time left with her, and God bless you and your family at this difficult time.

Green Creek Primitives said...

Hi Linda, Thanks for sharing all those wonderfull pictures, just can't get enough looking at primitives, always looking for new ways to display my items. I hate to hear about your mom. My friend is going through that at this time, it has been hard for her, she had to bring her mother to her house to watch after her. Thoughts and prayer are with you, there is always a listening hear here. Vicky

~Kathy~ said...

Hi Linda
First of all thank you for your kind words. They are really appreciated and mean a lot to me.

Secondly I am so sorry you have to witness what Alzheimer's disease is doing to your mom especially when you remember the person she once was. It is a horrible illness that robs a person of who they were. Taking your granddaughter to see her is a wonderful idea as it brings her joy and anything that you can do to put that smile on her face is so comforting. I pray God gives you the strength to endure all that you have to go through and allows you to be at peace at this most unpleasant time in your life. I know you take comfort in your memories and will share them with your family as you cherish the person she was. She may not know who you are or anyone else but you all know who she is and that is the important thing. Love is powerful and breaks barriers. You and your family are in my prayers.
Hugs
Kathy

Deppen homestead 1862 said...

OH, all the eye candy~ beautiful~ takes my breath away!
thanks for sharing~love it all!
smiles,
Teresa

Picket said...

Beautiful post girl...loved all the eye candy..Loved the loving words about your mama...I couldn't imagine what you are going thru...bless you and your family sweetie...the heart will always hold the memories...loved this post....Picket

earlene said...

Linda you have the most wonderful posts! I have never missed one! I love the magazine and have a subscription. It's the best! You all do a great job Thank You
God Bless you MOM.
Earlene

Janice said...

Thank you for the beautiful post. Whenever you post pics, I get excited. Also, I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. You are a very talented person and wonderful grandmother, too!

Dale Elizabeth ~ ACountryshop.blogspot.com said...

Dear Linda, My thoughts and prayers go out to you. I wish you strenth and courage as you go thru this.
Your post was beautiful, fun, inspiring, and entertaining. You really have a special talent.
Thanks for sharing!
Hugs,Dale

Tracey said...

Linda, I always love reading your posts and viewing the wonderful photos - today was no exception. Thank you for sharing, and my heart goes out to you - Alzheimer's is such a horrendous disease. I'm glad you have wonderful memories of a loving mom.

Sharon said...

Hi Linda
I finally getting caught back up with you.
I am so sorry to hear about your mom.
Those tapes will be such a wonderful memory for you and your gd.
Prayers for your sweet mom and for the family.
Hugs

Sistergirl said...

Oh, I enjoyed the pic. Great shots. I just discovered you site...I love it.

Lynn @ Painting Thyme Needfuls said...

Linda...
My heart aches for you Linda having to watch your Mom slip away.....MY dear FIL had Alzheimer's.....he was "one of a kind" and I loved him dearly.......it was one of the most devastating times of our lives to watch him slip away.....Cherish EVERY moment you can with your precious Mom...and hold tight in your heart your memories of this AMAZING woman you call Mom.
(((HUGS)))
Lynn