Tuesday, April 20, 2010

When one door closes…

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…another one opens of course! But sometimes we still are sad to see that door close and that is the case for many of us who are fans of my friend Kathy’s Home on the Hill in New Brunswick, CA. You see today, Kathy and Stephen close the door on the cottage they built 10 years ago as their retirement home. A lot of love, time and hard labor went into building that cottage. Stephen and Kathy did a lot of work themselves. Even as recently as last summer Stephen added a gorgeous stone patio, fence and arbor to the property. They make an awesome team with Stephen building and Kathy decorating and pulling it all together. But when they built what they thought would be their forever home, they were not grandparents yet. So living out in the country seemed right. And it was right ~ for a season or ten. But now with 4 young granddaughters and a grandson coming literally any day, living in the country is not where their hearts are anymore. They want to be closer to their family and church among other things. So today, that is exactly what is happening. They are packing up the very last of their belongings from the country and moving to their brand new town home in the city.


Kathy and Stephen so graciously allowed me to share with you some of the different seasons at their now former Home on the Hill ~ both inside and out. For all the Webshots gals who, like me, spent many happy times looking at Kathy's Home on the Hill albums, this our chance to say goodbye to the home we all fell in love with.

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but it was easy to see that she put a lot of care into her home as well. P1030856

Whether it was using things she inherited from family like her grandmothers pantry…P1050531

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or something Stephen built especially for her…P1050872

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P1040250 Kathy made us all want to stop over and share a cup of tea with her.

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Kathy, So while we are sad to say goodbye to your cottage, I know many of your friends, family will be thinking of you and Stephen as you close the door on one season and open a brand new one in your gorgeous brand new town home on James Street! P1050714_2

I know it is a bittersweet time leaving the Home on the Hill that you put so much into, but I also know for you both the sweet outweighs the bitter because where your family is, that is where you are most at home. A new season in a new home with a new decorating style, closer to family and church – it’s an exciting new beginning for you.

And even though it was our shared loved of antiques and primitives that brought us together on Webshots, and even though for a time I will miss all the primitives that aren’t making the trip with you ~ it is because we both always agree that ~ the best things in life are not really THINGS at all ~ that our friendship endures.

Best wishes and many blessings in this new season dear friend.

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Speaking of doors, a big new door opened for our niece Jamie as she married her college sweetheart Will at the gorgeous Simsbury Inn in CT this weekend.

Jamie was a stunny bride!!

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The flower girls were too cute!!010Her dress was stunning!

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… and we all loved the pretty turquoise shoes Jamie wore ~ what a fun twist!

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The food was delicious and Mr. Red Door and I enjoyed a wonderful evening with his side of the family…

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…his parents, who have been visiting from SC all week and…

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…his sister ~ the Mother of the Bride…

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and all 3 of our grown kids. (Lili stayed with her other Grammy and Grampy.)

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Because our family is so small it is not often that we get to celebrate such a special event so we decided to make a family weekend of it. Mr. Red Door reserved rooms for all of us to stay over night at the Inn so we could celebrate late into the night.

Mr. Red Door and I had the room on the top floor just to left of the left chimney!

It looked like this inside!

I highly recommend a wedding ceremony and reception at an Inn where the guest can simply take the elevator to their rooms at the end of the evening. It really made for a wonderful weekend! And we wish Will and Jamie many many years of love and laughter together

This special week closed with a family dinner here last night. Great Grandma R had to get in some more Lili time. They got along famously of course!

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Here Behind My red Door, many actual doors will be closing as well.

Yes it is time. It really has to be done.

The bathroom and bedroom and office doors will be closed all the time now.


But all for a very good reason I promise….

Yes ~ this little beanut is crawling around!!

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So now it’s time to baby proof Grammy’s house!!

A trip to Toys R Us is in order. I see gates and latches in my future!

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Thank you to everyone who has chosen to stop by. I know there are so many things you want and need to do each day with your time. I hope that you too are able to enjoy special times with those you love. Whether it is something as momentous as a wedding or even just some snuggles between the generations, 002

I hope you are making your days count as well.

As always, thank you to each fan, friend, and follower for making Behind My Red Door part of your day! And thank you for taking the time to comment when you can.

Until next time – hugs, Grammy Linda

53 sweet friends left a comment here!:

~Judy~ said...

Beautiful post Linda! I hope Kathy will enjoy her new home.

Mandy in Mayberry said...

Lovely post! What a sweet tribute to your friends, Kathy and Steve as they start a new chapter in their lives.

The wedding pics were beautiful and Lili is just precious!

Have a great week!

Linda said...

Hi Linda........I remember something last summer that possibly Kathy would be moving and I had been wondering when it would happen. Some lucky couple will be getting that wonderful Home on the Hill.
What a fun weekend you had. Great pic of you and the Mr, BTW!

At Home With Amy said...

Kathy's home has that prim fresh look that I so admire. I'm sure her town home will look just as charming. Maybe she will let you share some pictures of it when they are all moved in. I wish them a quick and successful move.

Your niece is just beautiful. Wishing her and her new husband many years of happiness together.

Lili is getting so big. She looks so squeezable. What a precious picture of her and her great grammy. One to treasure for ever.

Have a wonderful week Linda.
Warm Hugs and Blessings,
AMY

Jennifer said...

oh, tears came in my eyes at the story of leaving that beautiful cottage. Oh how pretty it is and how hard it must be to leave it.
I can't even imagine.

Your family pics are wonderful. I love watching families together having fun ( I can't really relate to having any extended family wanting to be around) but it looks so comforting.

Your home is always so beauiful and your pics are too.

Jennifer
Feathers in the Nest

Holly Hills Primitives said...

Looks like you had a wonderful weekend! Lili is growing like a weed, and so is Lucy. I hope your friends share pictures in their new townhouse - it is so much fun to see such sweet eye candy. Have a wonderful week filled with love, Dawn

schutt6 said...

what a beautiful tribute to the home on the hill...I have so enjoyed Kathy's pics over the years and look forward to see her new place all done up nice and prim :-)
lil Miss Lili's growing so fast!! she's absolutely a doll Linda..but of course you already know that don't ya...makes me even more excited for July to get here so I can be a grandma <3
and wow that place the wedding was held at sure was amazing! the bride was beautiful! and I loved her shoes!! :-)

Karen~The Barely There Primitive Bear said...

That sure is a wonderful picture
of snuggles between generations!
Your little Granddaughter is cuter
than a button! What a wonderful
weekend you must have had!
Thanks for sharing and have a
great week...

Bear Hugs~Karen

Lisa said...

What a beautiful tribute to the Home on the Hill. I enjoyed it and you said it wonderfully. Of course I had no doubt (lol). Loved all of the pictures of Kathy's home and wish her lots of happy memories in her new home on James St.

Thank you for sharing the pictures of the wedding. What a beautiful bride and those pictures of Lili are precious and priceless!!

Hugs,
Lisa

Cat Nap Inn Primitives said...

what a great post..I love your friend Kathys home...love all the decor..will be fun to see how she decorates this new home...love the room you stayed in...how romantical as Paula Deen would say..have a wonderful week ahead.:)

Hillcresthome Prims said...

Linda, We sure will miss your friends BEAUTIFUL home, but it is true when God closes a door he opens a window!!! Jamie was a stunning bride and I wish them the best!!!!!You and Mr Red Door looked GREAT!!! I am glad Lili got to see her great grandparents, she just makes me SMILE!!!!!! Thanks for sharing this great post with us girls!!!

Grammy Staffy said...

Dear Linda,
I can't believe that I am the first to leave you a message today. You as SOOOO popular as a blogger that usually I am number 50 something on your comment list.

Thanks for showing us Kathy's home. It was so lovely... but as you say..family is what really makes a home. Without family in it... it is just a house. Even a beautiful house is not as good as a home filled with family. I hope your friend will be very happy in her new home near her grandchildren.

It looks like Jamie had a lovely wedding. What a beautiful bride! I am glad that you had such a nice time. It looks like it was in a beautiful Inn.... and I just love the pictures of Lili with her great grandparents.

I am sending you big hugs. Grammy Lura

Lisa ~ A Cottage to Me said...

What a beautiful home she is leaving, but I am sure her new home will be just as warm and welcoming! What a beautiful place for a wedding and a beautiful couple too! Great picture of Great Grandma and baby...memories to be treasured for sure! Have a wonderful day and thanks for sharing!

Tomatoe Creek Prims said...

Just a wonderful post today Linda!
I fell in love with Home on the Hill thur you Linda and always enjoyed seeing how she decorated, sounds like she is doing another style and hope we get to "see":)

Lilly sure is growing and crawling already so hard to believe they grow so fast don't they?

I'll be making memories today, I pick the girls up and babysit till there dad comes home:)

Rondell♥

Kimberly said...

I love your posts Linda! Thanks for sharing all those wonderful pictures with us!

Janet - underthewillow said...

I am going to miss seeing pics of Kathy's willow tree stenciling most of all but am quite anxious to see her new decor!

Thank you for sharing your family pics! What a lovely time together it was!

Janet

Karen ~ Life In A Primitive English Cottage said...

What a truly lovely weekend you had, and the bride looked everything a bride should on her big day.

Lili sure is growing and yes definatly time to "Lili Proof" your home.

Thankyou for sharing such a lovely post Grammy Linda and I wish your friend Kathy all the very best as she starts out her new season with her family, Blessings, Karen

Dan said...

Linda~

That is sad about Kathy's Home on the Hill, but there new place looks really nice and I am sure they will make it beautiful.

It looks like the wedding was really nice. I am so glad that everyone got to spend some extra time together.

As always, Lili is a cutie! Pretty soon she'll be walking all over the place. I hope you have a wonderful week!

~Dan~

Audrey said...

I enjoyed touring " Home on the Hill" I know this will be a great time for them being closer to family. I am sure it is a little sad to leave that wonderful place but know the next home will be just as special once filled with family memories.

What wonderful wedding pictures. She was a beautiful bride and I loved the dress. I most enjoyed seeing you and hubby. I am glad you sharred such a lovely photo of the two of you.

Great Grandma R stole my heart in the picture of Lili hugging her head. What wonderful memories you captured.

family is everything and I am happy you are so blessed.

Angela said...

Thanks for the tour of the house. Just beautiful. I also enjoyed the pictures of the wedding and I'm SO in love with Lil..she is just too precious. The last picture made my heart melt and smile!

Dale Elizabeth said...

Hi Linda!
Lili is growing so fast! She looks like a little girl now, rather than a baby. She is of course ADORABLE.
What a beautiful bride!
Alot of changes all around, but at least they are all happy!
Dale Elizabeth

Beth At Mehitable Puddington's Cupboard said...

Things do change when you have grandchildren, don't they. :D
You are so right, things don't matter, people do and it's evident that you have your priorities straight.
Thanks for all you do at APP, I sure do appreciate what it takes to bring things all together!

Loretta said...

What a lovely home Kathy is leaving! It is not only gorgeous on the inside but the outside as well. You can tell a lot of love went into that home. But what good is a home without family around you? I am sure they will be very happy in their beautiful new townhome.
Congratulations to Jamie and Will. May their lives be filled with joy!
Linda what a beautiful pic of you and Mr. Red Door!
Oh my, Lili is on the move! Gates, outlet covers, and cabinet locks are definitely in order! Before long she'll be up and running!Hugs

adsgram said...

Best wishes to your niece and new nephew-in-law! What a lovely wedding venue--- love, love, love that room of yours-- and it really is so wonderful to be around family! I am oldest of six, so we make a crowd by ourselves when we are together, but add in=laws, children and grands, and we are a FORCE!!!! LOL! It is fun!

Liliana is going to be a busy little devil especially if she carries on that 'eye twinkle' her Daddy has! YUP...gates and locks and electrical outlet covers (oh my) coming your way, Grammie.

We will all be looking forward to the next stage of Kathy and Stephen's home and decorating saga. How exciting to be getting a new place to live along with a new baby grandchild, too! I am (a bit) jealous...all the best to them!

Enjoy our lovely weather while it lasts,,,

♥..Lynne
dlynne172@yahoo.com

kim@ A Thyme Remembered said...

Yes, Sometimes God closes one door, but He always gives something bigger, better and more than we can ever imagine! thanks for sharing....I have AWOL for a bit now...and I am trying to catch up...and am SO excited about the Primitive Place Mag...wow! Cannot wait. Take care, Linda....with little Lili scooting around...time sure does fly, now doesn't it? Well, you know my motto! Enjoy EVERY Moment!

Autumnmom said...

What a lovely tribute. And a beautiful wedding. And a lovely family! :)

hugs, Carolee

P.S. love your new background!

Quilt Hollow said...

I couldn't find an email for you and wanted to ask if you would direct me to the post about getting a new .com with the help of another blogger. I had planned to remember this info and now can't find it! Thanks Mary

janet said...

What a wonderful post..Best wishes to your friend on her new move and her home is inviting..Your niece look lovely on her wedding day..What a beautiful place for a wedding..Glad you got to spend time with your family and your grandaughter is definetly a cutie..I truly enjoy reading all of your posts..

kathy said...

Oh Linda, that was beautiful....I'm all teary now. So very sweet of you to write such a wonderful tribute about our sweet little cottage, "Home on the Hill". It was difficult leaving today, to be honest, harder than I thought...as you can imagine. However, we are very excited as you well know, about the new door that is opening for us here on James St. Thank you ever so much for your friendship. And, thanks too to all your kind friends for their comments. love and hugs, kathy xo

Ginny said...

Hi Linda, I bet you squeeze that Lili all the time, she is too cute. Do they make prim gates and latches?

Kris ~ Simply Prim said...

What a beautiful post, Linda! Such a nice tribute to Kathy and Steven and their beautiful Home On The Hill! I wish them the best in their new townhouse!
Looks like you had a great time at the wedding! How nice that you got to spend extra time with your family! What a wonderful picture of you and Mr. Red Door!
I LOVE the pictures of Lili! She is such a cutie pie!! I can't believe how big she's getting! Very sweet pictures of her and great grammy! Priceless!!

Take care my friend!
Kris

Bonnie said...

Enjoyed your post about Kathy's cottage. Can't wait to see how she turns a modern townhouse into a quaint and cozy place.

Beautiful wedding photos. The inn looks so inviting. My husband and I love the New England states, so I'll be checking out their website.

Closed doors and babyproofing are part of my life too. Lili is absolutely precious. Isn't being a grandma simply the best!

Carla said...

*sniff*sniff* I will miss Home on the Hill. It has always been my favorite! However, on a happier note, I can't wait to see what Kathy does with the new place. I'm sure it will be just as wonderful! This was a sweet post, Linda. How sweet that Lili and David's parents got to spend some quality time together. Looks like they were equally enjoying it.
Hugs!

Julie said...

What a nice post--from beginning to end. You are such a positive influence in so many lives, Linda. Thanks for sharing. Lily looks so much like her great-grandma. I LOVE the photos of them together. Happiness +++++++!! Julie

Kim said...

What a lovely post Linda. I've always enjoyed looking at pics of Kathy's home, and the ones you shared are just beautiful. Wishing them much happiness in their new home.
The wedding pictures were beautiful, and Jamie did make a stunning bride, and that room you stayed in!!! Very romantic!
I always enjoy seeing pictures of Lili, and the ones with great grandma are just precious!
Have a great rest of the week.
Prim Blessings,
Kim

Kath ~★The Olde Weeping Cedar ★~ said...

Hi Linda,
Such a nice post.
I want to wish Kathy and her husband all the best in their new home--I know they will have many many years of love and happiness here, closer to everything truly important to them... and brand new memories will be made!

Love that pic of Lili and her Great Gram.

Have a wonderful day.

Miss Liz said...

Your friends have a beautiful home that i'm sure they will miss quite a bit! But this is a good reminder that despite best laid plans family should always come first. Beautiful post.

Ken said...

So enjoyed the photos of the Home on the Hill. Am sure it was with heavy hearts that they closed the final door. However, what great times ahead being close to family - the very best reason for changing homes.
Looking forward to seeing how they'll decorate their town house as imagine that, too, will be in my future at some point. In recent EAH they had a town home decorated so very nicely.
Also as always enjoyed all your family photos - thanks for sharing.
And also, as always, enjoyed your entire update.
Blessings,
CountryKathy

Karen/My Colonial Home said...

I was positive I commented here but I don't see it. I might have been ahead of myself and clicked off too soon before it took.
At any rate...what a gorgeous bride - and the place is gorgeous. Glad you were all able to spend the weekend there....and Lili was able to get quality time with G Grandparents.

Karen

mj said...

Hello, Not sure where my post went so I hope I'm not going to show up twice. I wanted to say thanks for the nice post and what a great wedding. I just love your sister in laws dress. My Son is getting married this year and I think that maybe the dress I've been looking for. Could you be so kind and let me know where she got it. Thanks again for a great post. MJ

Farmchick said...

I always enjoy looking at all your pictures Linda! :)

Now, before I forget....thank you so much for sendind me the info on making my blog a website...I just recently found it in my spam box! I think I may do it but I just don't have the time right now. Anyway...thanks so much for the information.

Hope you can stop by for a visit soon. :)

Grammy Linda / Behind My Red Door said...

MJ - I have to see the comment in an email and then choose to publish it or not before you see it show up. (In case spammers get on here) I was not online and just hadn't had a chance to do that when you came back looking for it. I asked my SIL about her long dress/jacket combo and she got it at an end of season sale last year at a Macy's in CT. It's at the cleaners and she didn't remember the brand label inside. That's all the info she gave me. Good luck finding something. When our son got married two years ago this month, I found mine online. I googled Mother of the Bride dresses. Hope that helps!

RachelC said...

As always, a wonderful blog! I enjoyed both the last two postings! You are simply a wonderfully gifted writer and you pull me in every time! Your niece was a beautiful bride...you all looked like you had a wonderful time together. Thank you for sharing Kathy's pictures...I loved looking at them, over and over! I hope you have a wonderful day, Grammy Linda and enjoy baby proofing that house! :-) Rachel

Sharon said...

What a great post. I enjoyed seeing the wedding photos.
It sounds like you all had some fun.
I hope that Steve and Kathy will enjoy their new home.
Your lil one is so cute.
Our gs is now rolling over and trying to get up on knees but then the front falls. He is so fun to watch.
Hugs

mj said...

Linda, Thanks for geeting back to me. I appreciate it. Everyone looked wonderful. Thanks again, MJ

mj said...

Linda, Thanks for geeting back to me. I appreciate it. Everyone looked wonderful. Thanks again, MJ

Kris said...

Hi Linda...what a nice time you and your family had at the wedding! Aren't those the best times!! And Lili is crawling! Wow...time flies! She will be running around next! It goes so fast Noah will be 3 on Monday. Can't believe it!!! I hope your friends will be happy in their new home. I am sure they will make it a very special place as well.
Happy weekend Linda!

Kaaren said...

Thanks for sharing your family photos, Linda.

Although I don't know Kathy, I'm certain that her new home will be just as awesome as the one she is leaving. It's the people who live there that make a house a home.

Enjoy your weekend.

Martha said...

Your little Lili is growing up too fast, what a cutie!

The bride looked beautiful, all of you looked great and like you were having a wonderful time!

I wish Kathy the best! I know how it feels to have your grandchildren far away, mine are too far! They grew up so fast, seems like yesterday they were babies and now we have preteens and little kids and no babies:( Every summer I have my oldest son's two boys stay with me, we have been doing this since his oldest was 4 1/2. . .and now he 10 1/2 and the other one just turned 7. They are reaching the age though were hanging out with grandma is not too exciting, thank goodness they have their Aunt her and Uncle to do stuff with beside just me!

Wishing you well, as always I enjoy your posts!

Tammy ~ Country Girl at Home ~ said...

I've said it before....there are so many seasons to our lives and you're right...the most important things in life aren't things! I'm sure Kathy's home will be beautiful regardless! I will miss that beautiful decor, but I wish her the best!

Loved the pictures of Lili too...and it's a new season for you...babyproofing!

Have a great weekend!
Tammy

Karen said...

What a wonderful tribute to such a sweet friend. I'm so excited for Kathy and Stephen as they move forward on this new venture and hope that they will share pictures of there home because I'm sure it will be beautiful. Love your other pics as well - especially you know who :).

I haven't fallen off the face of the earth, yet, LOL.

Hugs sweet friend - Karen

a little bit of everything said...

Very nice tribute to your friend's home and lovely wedding photos. Found you on New England Bloggers...

Sandy said...

Oh Linda, you almost made me cry when you spoke about Kathy and Stephen. I am so honored to say that I had the opportunity to visit 'Home on the Hill'. Kathy and Stephen are wonderful people and I completely understand them wanting to be closer to family. I can't wait to see her new home decorated in a whole new style.

What a beautiful wedding! Your niece's dress was just beautiful. It is so fun to be able to spend time with Family. And how wonderful for Lili to get the opportunity to spend some quality time with her great-grandparents. That makes the most wonderful memories. I have the most fondest memories from being little and spending every single holiday with my grandparents. And I am very lucky to say that I still have my Grammie at the age of 98 and to be able to share her with my daughters.

I can't get over how much Lili has grown. She looks like she will be a tall girl :) And baby proofing is the best, making you feel at ease when you have your precious little girl visiting.

Have a wonderful weekend! I hope the sun is shining for you :)

Sandy